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One of the wonderful things about sex is that feeling incredibly good is as simple as finding someone you fancy and taking them to bed. But although our bodies tend to provide us with everything we need for pleasurable experiences in the bedroom, there's no harm in experimenting with some of the best sex toys for men to enhance your experiences. wearable anal adult toys for men
These days, male sex toys are generally pretty easy to use and there are loads of them. So there's absolutely no reason to hesitate to invest in one yourself. After all, almost everyone you know with a vagina probably has a toy stashed away on their bedside table – why shouldn't you?
Whatever you like in bed, you're bound to find a male sex toy that suits you. There are cock rings, which are a simple and effective way of increasing pleasure during penetrative sex and masturbation, and they can also boost your performance. Male masturbators are another option. And don't worry – most of them look nothing like '80s Fleshlights. In fact, this kind of toy has experienced huge innovation in recent years, with plenty of male masturbators using impressive technology to help you experience incredible orgasms. On top of that, there are also anal toys, including prostate massagers, which are well worth a go, especially if you're yet to discover your p-spot (which all penis owners have, FYI).
That might be a lot to take in, which is why we've enlisted the help of sex and relationship psychotherapist Kate Moyle, a sex toy expert for Lelo, to help you wrap your head around male sex toys. So here's our informed advice on what to look for in a sex toy, as well as the best buys for every penis and preference.
We’re glad you asked. There is a surprisingly wide range of variations on sex toys for men, depending on the sorts of sensations you’re after and which parts of the body you’re looking to tickle and tingle. From absolute beginners to well-practised veterans, there are toys to play to all sorts of tastes and fantasies, made with skin-safe materials all designed to blow your socks off.
Worn around the base of the penis (or sometimes underneath the frenulum, which is the head of the penis), the best cock ring is a fine introduction to accessorised male pleasure, thanks to its inoffensive appearance and non-penetrative function. Its main use is to halt premature ejaculation and make erections stronger and longer-lasting via next-level enhancing blood flow. Options like the Tor 3 or Je Joue's Mio do a solid job of blocking blood when you need it while also delivering deep and enjoyable pulsating rumbles through your groin to elevate the experience.
“When used correctly it's a good product for those who are struggling with erectile dysfunction and performance anxiety, giving you less distraction away from erection worries and allowing you to put your attention towards your pleasure,” says Moyle. “Some come in a ring style, others are adjustable using a drawstring, and some come with an additional pleasure device / small vibrator for both you and your partner such as the Lelo Tor 3.” If you’re looking to spice things up with a partner, bells and whistles such as vibration settings and vulva-stimulating rabbit ears are all the more appealing for simulating the clitoris and getting someone else off at the same time as you.
If you’re looking for a discreet way to hit the P-spot from home without particularly invasive penetration then it’s a prostate massager you’re after. “Prostate stimulation can offer a different type of pleasure whether that be partnered or solo, as it's surrounded by nerve endings which can feel intensely pleasurable,” says Moyle.
The best prostate massagers tend to come in skin-friendly, high-quality silicone, vibrating to stimulate the prostate for a more intensely felt orgasm. For a braver sensation, glass and metal are also available. “Whilst the narrative that anal sex is only for certain sexual preferences and orientations remains, this is a myth and prostate pleasure can be for anyone who owns a prostate,” says Moyle. “Still, a good anal or water-based lubricant is essential for prostate play as the anus doesn't self-lubricate sufficiently enough for anal penetration.”
For the man looking for extra pleasure away from his backside, please and thank you, consider the pesnis sleeve. At the more manual end of the spectrum, these come in the form of single-use eggs (such as the ones by Tenga), featuring ribs that intertwine and wrap around the sleeve’s interior for more tactile tugs. Invest a little more in higher-tech vibrating strokers to enjoy turbo features that go on to mimic the sensations of sex.
“The best male masturbators can also be good for those who struggle with manual dexterity, and can be used with partners if penetrative sex is something that's not currently possible or just as a pleasurable addition to your sex life,” says Moyle. “Some waterproof masturbators come with suction attachments or shower mounts so that they can be stuck to a bathroom wall.”
You probably already know what a dildo is, but there are still a few things to consider here with size and girth being a rather obvious primary concern. The longer the dildo, the deeper it’ll go, so consider easing in with something south of six inches or using a smaller product like a butt plug if you're new to all this. “Butt plugs can be worn during masturbation or other sexual acts for added sensation and can be made from silicone, metal or glass,” says Moyle. “The latter two have the addition of being temperature controlled and so offer you the chance to run them under cold or warm water before insertion.”
More realistic dildos come in flesh-toned silicone, veins and all (you may even have heard about the tattooed Pete Davidson replica now doing the rounds). Others come in hypoallergenic metal, which, unless you’ve been pegged by the Terminator himself, will likely feel quite unfamiliar. Whatever anal toy you happen to indulge in, make sure it has a flared base or looped handle so that it isn't sucked into your body – that is not an A&E trip anyone wants to make.
As for anal beads? “They consist of several small balls connected together in a series, sometimes in a series of different or ascending sizes,” says Moyle. “You can pull the beads out whenever feels good for you, but many people do it at the point of orgasm with it offering an enhancement of the sensitivity of your pleasure peak.”
These toys venture into the realms of couple's play, so if you're keen to learn more, we suggest you head over to our guides on the best sex toys for couples and for women. And while you're at it, take a look at the best condoms to ensure you stay safe.
“There historically has been a pervasive narrative that using lubricant means that your partner is not turned on enough,” says Moyle. “In fact, vaginal lubrication can vary based on many different factors, and actually one of the more likely turns off when it comes to partnered sex is if it's painful or uncomfortable, and using lubricant can play a part in avoiding that.”
As such, a quality lubricant won't just grease the wheels during foreplay, oral or penetrative sex, but will help you reap the most enjoyment out of your sex toys. While some offer tasty flavours, tingling sensations or orgasm-delaying agents, in their purest form, a healthy glug of lubricant will improve the slip and flow of sex in its many forms. Of course, not all lubes are created equal, and our dedicated guide to the best lubricants will shed more light on that.
“A good water-based lubricant is condom and sex toy compatible and is a real pleasure enhancer for wherever you use it,” says Moyle. “There are specific lubricants designed for anal play such as Yes But which is pH matched for anal use, and has a thicker texture, and Roam's 'for the back' lubricant which has a thicker consistency to offer longer lasting lubrication.”
Let's get right into it. Masturbation is scientifically proven to be beneficial to your mental wellness and has a number of benefits to your health aside from just feeling physically good. We're sure you're aquatinted with your hand over many sessions, but bringing in one or two adult toys can elevate your play time well beyond what you may have been used to, and can improve those health benefits even further.
So how does a tug help? Aside from the obvious stress-relieving qualities associated with masturbation, it's been proven to help reduce the risk of prostate cancer, generate positive chemicals in the body, train your pelvic floor (which is great if you're hoping to last longer when you get the chance to hop into bed with someone else), and can help you concentrate more. We also appreciate the exploration of your own body, learning what feels good and encouraging body positivity, which is no small thing. And you get all that from your right hand, so throwing in something a bit spicier goes a long way to helping out with those aspects.
For instance, the use of a toy can help with erectile dysfunction – essentially training your body to stay harder for longer – as well as alleviating symptoms of premature ejaculation.
Now you've got an inkling as to what you should be buying from the great world of sex toys, you'll want to know how to take care of them. It should go without saying that proper toy maintenance is essential considering you'll be using these devices in and around your sensitive areas, and keeping things in tip-top shape is neither difficult to do or takes that long to complete. Every time you've used your toy, at the very least and – probably before you use it too – put it under warm water and use soap to gently clean it off. Bigger toys will inevitably be a bit trickier to manage, but soaking it in warm water will usually do the job. Pat dry it with tissues and store away properly to keep your kit in the best condition.
It often seems like a difficult topic to bring up with your partner, but we're here to break down taboos and get you feeling confident about your bodies. It should be obvious, but you definitely shouldn't be introducing anything into the bedroom without consent and at least talking about it first. The first step is just to engage them on what feels good and what they like, and if there's anything they would be willing to explore. It's also worth considering what your own limits are and how far you're willing to go in the hunt for pleasure.
Looking at toys together can be a good way to explore those avenues you're yet to discover, and then taking things slow and without judgment is the best way forward. Once you've tested your your chosen toys, make sure to debrief and chat through what worked and felt good, so you can build on the communication.
Pros: AI bots help to give you a totally unique, personalised experience | Sonic pulses offer different sensations Cons: Expensive
We all know that 2025's venture into AI-powered tech has been spotty at best – Chat GPT, for example, has yet to write a great update to War & Peace – but if there was ever to be a device that brought our confidence back into those clever bots it would be Lelo's foray into AI-led sex toys. If you don't know, Lelo is a purveyor of quality, luxury toys for all tastes and interests, but here we're interested in its latest male masturbators, the third version of the F1S.
If you're familiar with V2, it's ostensibly the same thing, though instead of replicating your traditional blowjob, it uses sonic pulses that are dictated by real-time data fed from the AI smartphone app that adjust and change based on your own preferences and movements. Essentially it boils down to figuring out what you like and doing more of that.
Pros: Even more settings than the previous version | Powerful vibrations | Skin safe Cons: Expensive
Lelo's flexible, erection-strengthening Tor 2 was a crowd-pleaser for many years, and this latest one is the next big step in men's sexual pleasure that's almost guaranteed to give you and your partner the pleasure you're craving. Where the Tor was a silicone ring that slipped over your shaft for blood-restricting goodness and provided a few vibrating features, the Tor 3 cranks up the rumblings to 11, with even more vibration settings to unlock a wealth of new experiences to try.
Customise these settings in the Lelo app on the fly or set your favourites and then go to town, with the app storing thousands of guiding articles, relationship tips and even some erotic literature for you to peruse for stimulation.
Pros: Powerful sexual experience | Can be warmed up | Multiple vibration settings Cons: Expensive | Hard to hide
This bowling pin-resembling massager is a bestseller and not just for its relative discretion. Turning up the heat when it comes to solo play (quite literally), Blowmotion's masturbator warms up to the temperature of 42C to closely resemble the feeling of oral sex. And because there's obviously more to fellatio than a warm orifice alone, eight vibration settings at 12 different intensities go the extra step to tune this gadget exactly to your liking – and all without a tooth in sight.
And for those who struggle to hold it all together when the real thing happens, this one has guided coaching to educate you on how to train the pelvic floor muscles for a longer, more intense experience.
Pros: Easy masturbator to use | Easy to clean up Cons: Pricey
An upgrade of Lelo’s best-selling F1S Developer’s Kit, V2 builds on that most customisable of masturbators with more intuitive analytics (to train you up for IRL encounters), plus the option for double the strength of its predecessor. Playing into a perhaps overdone stereotype, the ability to customise via its app has been developed with four unique programme variations, while the build is more inclusive to different shapes and sizes thanks to a softer and more flexible inner sleeve.
A stroker is a great toy to get started with. This one from Lovehoney is completely beginner-friendly and is sure to remain a part of your sex toy collection for many years to come. With six speeds and six vibration patterns, you can figure out exactly what suits you to ensure solo play feels good every single time. You can also use this toy during partner play, including oral sex, for increased sensations.
A masturbation sleeve is probably the easiest way to upgrade your solo play and this one from Durex is carefully designed with specific textures that aim to mimic the sensations of penetrative and oral sex. This is an affordable option, so it's a good choice if you're not sure if sex toys are for you and want to experiment. It won't last forever, but if you clean it after every use, you should be able to use it up to 50 times – that's pretty good value for money.
If you enjoy the sensation of a butt plug, or maybe you like to use it with your partner(s) to explore power play, opting for a glass butt plug is only right. The texture and sensations of this one from Lovehoney are like no other, and it's also non-toxic and body-safe. It's great for experimenting with temperature play (you can submerge it in warm water for 10 minutes before using it if you like it hot) and it can be used during solo or partnered play. Just don't forget to use plenty of lube and wash it after every use.
Pros: A replica of a top-tier model | Easy to clean | Super-advanced mechanics Cons: Pricey
So you're a fan of a particular actress? If that's so, there are plenty of replica male masturbators that are designed to mimic the genitalia of the porn industry's best. This particular model's ribbed cavity, which will change temperature as you muse it, can be pulsed and moved with the internal motor, which is about as close to the real thing you'll ever get, so be grateful. In all seriousness, it's a quality tool that's easy to clean, though be mindful of the spenny price tag. Pop in some top-tier lube and you're good to go.
Pros: Large enough for most sizes | Easy to clean | Simple to use Cons: Quite advanced | Not a toy for every user
Penis pumps get a bad wrap – Austin Powers did them no favours, really – but if you need a bit of extra strength with your erections away from popping pills, then a pump is your answer. This particular one from Tracy Cox is a top-drawer utensil for flushing the penis with blood using a pump-action air extraction process of the grenade-shaped pump. Confused? Stick your member in there and squeeze the grenade to feel your penis enlarge, ready for use with a partner. Though be mindful, don't use it too much, just enough to help achieve an erection.
Pros: Affordable | Discrete | Couple-friendly Cons: Single-use
If you're keen to experiment with male masturbators but you don't want to break the bank, this single-use toy from TENGA is a great choice. It's designed to increase your pleasure by providing some extra stimulation, with a heart-shaped design that makes for a great gift. Speaking of gifts, you can use this product alone or with a partner, so it's an ideal treat for date night. Plus, with careful use and cleaning, you can also use it more than once, and let's just say, you're probably going to want to.
Pros: A clever design for maximum pleasure | 20 settings | Ideal for solo and couple play Cons: Fairly loud
Sometimes, simple is best and this toy exemplifies why. Vibrators aren't just for people with vaginas and this toy is designed to fit a range of penises to help you experience a totally new kind of pleasure. With 12 speeds and 8 patterns, it's a great toy to experiment with, either on your own or with a partner.
It's suitable for people who are new to using sex toys, as it's easy to use but it's also a good, classic vibrator that delivers pleasure for anyone looking to add to their ever-growing collection of toys. And the sleek, simple design means it will look pretty good amongst your other old reliable favourites too.
Pros: Washable | Clever air control technology Cons: Minimal uses
This toy uses air control technology to create a suction sensation like you've never experienced before. Unlike some other masturbators, it is reusable if carefully washed although it won't last forever. Instead, save this toy for special occasions, whether you want to use it on date night with your partner, or indulge in some sensational solo play.
This masturbator also features various ridges and nubs, which will enhance the sensations it creates even further, making for a truly one-of-a-kind sexual experience.
Pros: Advanced technology | Realistic Cons: On the more expensive side
Looking to take your sex toy collection to the next level? This rechargeable masturbator uses impressive technology for a realistic, intense experience. You can use this masturbator completely hands-free, as it comes with a desk mount. Plus, there's also an option to connect it to music, games or movies, as well as an app, which makes it great for long-distance play.
It's rechargeable, with a running time of 12 hours, another reason it's worth the slightly higher price tag. Don't forget to use it with plenty of lubricant for the best experience.
Pros: Automatic enhancements | Slow to recharge Cons: Pricey
Yet another penis pump from Tracey Cox, though this one looks less like a tool found in the army weapons bin, but more of a refined, classy experience. It looks a lot like a male masturbator, with a slim, tall tube that you insert the penis into but with this one, the suction is automatic, with a motor that pulls out the air and strengthens erections the technological way. There are three settings depending on your needs and it's USB rechargeable so you don't have to worry about running out of batteries mid-pump.
Pros: Cock ring and butt plug in one toy | Easy to clean | Included remote control Cons: Pricey
Instead of aiming for a heavenly experience, why not take it one step further and prepare for an orgasm of galactic proportions? The Huemann Black Hole is a cock ring and prostate massager rolled into one supreme sex toy; there's even a remote for handing control over to someone else. The relatively simple design means you can slip it in easily and enhance your erections.
Clean-up is a doddle with a bit of warm water and soap, and the durable silicone is sturdy enough for several big sessions without losing its tenacity.
Pros: Mighty vibrations in a tight sleeve for solo sessions | Long battery | Easy to clean Cons: Expensive
Male masturbators come in many shapes and forms, though ostensibly the best design is one that snuggly fits your member with soft silicone for that true-to-life sensation that truly gets your rocks off. Kiiroo's Keon is smartly designed and reasonably discreet – you only really know what it is if you're in the know – but it comes with a wide range of settings to get that perfect feel and once you're done, the clean-up process is as simple as running it under the tap with some warm water and soap. Couldn't be easier. Granted, it's an awful lot of money simply to get a good tug, but if you take that sort of thing seriously, you wont't find many better.
Pros: Remote access | Multiple vibration settings | Durable design | Easy to clean Cons: Expensive
male prostate massagers You'll find the standard version of the Hugo 2 elsewhere on this list, but for those looking to level up their play time with a partner in unique ways, the remote edition is perhaps one to explore. This particular prostate massager is a beginner-friendly model with a mid-sized girth that's packed in with a motor to get multiple vibrations settings that can be controlled by someone else from up to 15 metres away, though we always reckon you should be a little bit closer at least.