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News flash for the kings, queens, and anyone with a penis who hasn't figured it out. The real male orgasmic spot is not actually the penis. It's the prostate. If that was news to you, we're here to tell you that your orgasms can be better—around three times more intense, according to nerd scientists. Masturbators, condoms, and sex toys can all be part of your healthy sex life. But all the paraphernalia in the world will not match hitting your P-spot. Whether that is via a partner or yourself working around in there or via a super hi-tech prostate massager, doesn't matter. The result is life-changing. Some of you already knew that. Some of you are interested. That's why you're here, searching for the best prostate massagers.
Before you stick anything in, you'll want to consider all of your options, as there are many, and they vary in capabilities. Many are waterproof, and a lot of them can be remotely controlled, either through Bluetooth or WiFi. Most important, many come with the wisdom of a second external arm (more on that below). Our sex experts have done some market testing to discover these best 19 best prostate massagers. So look through this list, figure out what works for you, ready your back door with a generous application of good lube, and have fun.
For us, this is the prostate massager that stands out the most on this list. It's the one we recommend most wholeheartedly, especially if you're just starting to test out back-door toys.
It's just a regular penetrative vibrator, but because of Maude's clever design—meaning the shape and length of this guy—it can hit a P-spot just as easily as it does a G-spot. There's no additional app you need to use. With five simple speeds and tasteful colors, it's one of the best looking options on this list and a great first foray if you're just starting to explore or want something that actually looks good. Plus, you can buy it in a bundle with Maude's organic lube.
Here's another one that gets quite a lot of positive feedback, thanks to a shape that's not overly thick or long. The motion also mimics real finger play quite well, so you aren't too far removed from the real-life thing. The included remote control makes it great for partner play, as well. More experienced users, be warned, as you'll probably want something a bit bigger.
Crank things up with a cock ring. Yes. While the ecstasy of a prostate orgasm is intense enough to hit your whole nervous system, the addition of a snug cock ring—for a stronger, longer erection—can really dial things up. We won't sugarcoat it: This best seller on Amazon will blast you inside and out, hands-free style.
"What do 212 thrusts against your sweet spot per minute feel like?" Oh, you freak! But that's not a pie-in-the-sky fantasy. This massager delivers that—vibration and thrusting slightly up and down on its own—while simultaneously tantalizing other sensitive areas.
On to these T-shaped massagers. The long bottom bar is for, well, making sure the device doesn't get lost up in there, as well as stimulating the whole entry region, front to back. And the rod's head on this one doesn't just vibrate—it also circles around 360 degrees.
Just as a product, as a piece of design, this Nexus Revo Stealth is sleek and quite beautiful. As a tool? Oh, baby. It's got six external vibration modes and two bidirectional rotation speeds for plenty of pleasure combos. The three-inch shaft and four-inch girth make it manageable for starters. But for the experienced, the Revo Extreme has the same perks with a six-inch girth.
Playing with this "banana" is very intuitive. Just slot in the bulbed shaft and it'll take you places. (With seven vibration modes, this is a guarantee.) The nifty LED panel handle lets you explore the modes seamlessly so you can control your big O.
Lelo always offers the kind of luxury sex tech for the playtime that demands it. Its Hugo, let's just say, is the Rolls-Royce of prostate massagers: It is remote-controlled, is fitted for most guys, has two vibrating motors to double your moan, and uses SenseMotion to match the vibration with your hand movement on the controller. Our advice: Get creative on the last one.
While quite a few options on this list come with remote controls, Vector is designed for an insert-and-go experience. Both its prostate and perineum arms can be bent to hit the right places. Then, once you're all set, use We-Vibe's app to circle through the ten vibration speeds—one is bound to make you blossom.
Okay, it does look and sound like it stings a little, but you may like it! Especially when the "trident" has a self-pivoting curved design to ergonomically stimulate your internal and external hot spots. The wide handles provide a good grip, so it'll stay put unless you move it. This one is ideal for a hands-free crescendo.
A prostate stimulator, a cock ring, a ball ring, and 48 combinations of vibrations all in one—too much to handle? Not to mention the sizable four-inch internal shaft. It's almost impossible to fight the inevitable explosion.
If you like the Trident, Progasm is its much girthier and larger iteration that'll make you satisfyingly, intensely full. Its curve pinpoints the spot, then the contoured head puts pressure directly onto it. And the clear option looks like an ice sculpture, which is great for being discreet.
I'm gonna put that in there? Yes. Duke's unique shape looks wild at first, but it's just engineered for easily accessing the P-spot and then staying exactly where you want it. The bulbous design will also give you a nice sense of fullness, and the curve puts plenty of pressure on your P-spot
Loki Wave also delivers the fingering motion that Lelo dubbed "come hither." When the tip moves back and forth, it's almost as if it's teasing you and beckoning you toward the climax. Very erotic. Costly? Yes. Worth it? Even more so.
As an adjustable prostate massager, Edge 2 will hit your spot, wherever it is. Though a few trial-and-error sessions might be needed at first, once the flexible arm is adjusted to the right angle, the power motor on the large bulbs will handle the rest, acutely, merrily.
It doesn't look nearly half as scary as others, which is a good start. It's also small enough for newbies (the insertable length is safe at only 2.75 inches), can be app controlled, and is quiet despite having powerful dual motors—11 settings, my guy.
You might prefer taking it easy, meaning stimulating your prostate, perineum, and other erogenous sites one at a time. This massager lets you do that, with three separate controls for the shaft, base, and spinning ridges meant for the back door. That is also to say that you can mix and match the vibrations in different areas.
If merely hitting it isn't enough—you want to literally hit onto the spot—check this out. The big contoured curved tip will direct and focus all the vibration on your internal bulb.
This one isn't electric at all. And it's technically a thin, hefty double-ended dildo with bulbous ends and swirl ridges for targeted internal stimulation. Adventurous guys for millennia before us never had vibration or remote control. It'll slide in gently and press where you need it to. If you need more than that, you or a partner can add some movement.
The stainless-steel skin, by the way, is good with any lubricant.
The prostate is any penis owner’s reproductive gland responsible for producing parts of semen. It is located at the base of the penis and a few inches inside the rectum—or, in layman’s term, two knuckles deep. It’s about the size of a walnut or Ping-Pong ball but bulbs outward, so it’s actually quite easy to find once you're in the area. And if you press against it via a finger or a penetrative sex toy, you essentially fire up the clump of sensitive nerve endings in it and turn it into an erogenous zone, i.e., the P-spot.
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