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Whether or not you’re already into butt stuff, you’ll no doubt have heard that cis-gender men (and trans women) have a ‘g-spot’ nestled where the sun doesn’t shine that is capable of unlocking profound, orgasmic pleasure. sex toys anal plug
Straight or gay, top or bottom, if you generally try to get the most out of your spare time, your diet, your workouts or your toothpaste tube, doesn’t it track that you’d want to up your climax game, too?
Following the sex tech revolution, many of our favourite sex toy brands (LELO, Lovehoney, Bondara...) now offer a plethora of prostate massagers promising myriad joys — and aimed at everyone, from the curious beginner to the seasoned size-queen.
To help you get there, we have set ourselves the task of, selflessly, reviewing the best prostate sex toys on the market. So, read on to find out what made the cut – plus our top tips on how to have good, clean fun.
Well, it's a massager, for your prostate. But, for a little more detail, we headed straight to the experts.
'A prostate massager is a sex toy specifically designed for those with a prostate gland,' explains LELO's resident sex expert, Kate Moyle. 'This is located a few inches inside the body and stimulated directly through anal penetration, or indirectly via the perineum.'
They come in all shapes and sizes. 'Prostate massagers can be shaped to stimulate the P-spot directly, or can have dual-purpose where they stimulate the perineum externally at the same time.' FYI, these are your wishbone-shaped players.
The most common backdoor toys are butt plugs and massagers. Typically, these come fitted with mini motors for added vibrations and often with remote controls — for those whose arms aren’t four feet long with multiple double-jointed elbows.
Use your prostate massager by yourself while wanking, slide one into a friend or loved one, or let it take you to tremble-town while your schlong, mouth or hands are otherwise engaged.
I (Adam), alongside a team of MH editors and writers, personally tested every toy in our line-up — as well as some others that didn't quite meet our standards. We got intimate for several weeks, trialling every feature and function, including battery life, vibration power and waterproof capabilities.
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For the sex-tech connoisseur with a little more money to spend, LELO should be your go-to. Known for delivering in terms of style and function, its Scandi sex tech scores highly in nearly every category. And the discreet, super chic packaging every toy arrives in? Somewhat similar to James Bond pulling up in an Aston Martin.
The BILLY 2 is the kind of size that gives a man a certain swagger, while the super-simple, four-button controls make it intuitive to use. The vertical handle design also lends itself to use with a partner — or partners. Hell, make a party of it.
But reader, it’s the motor. I don’t know what LELO puts in its toys, and no doubt it’s what makes them a little pricier than others, but the power is real.
Amid growing concerns about the economy, the Vector + swings into your life promising a strong and stable pound. On first glance, it's like any other massager — L-shaped to simultaneously hit your perineum and coated in butter-like silicone — but also comes with two features that set it apart from its peers and, if you ask us, justify the slightly higher price point.
Firstly, it's quiet. In a field of buzzing, rumbling sex toys, whisper-quiet discretion feels like a very exciting innovation. Secondly, there's the option to go totally hands-free with the wireless remote and/or (free) We-Vibe app. So, say you wanted someone to control your orgasm and edge you from a distance...
I was going to say that a little bit of dom/sub play never hurt anyone, but who am I kidding? What I will say is, if you are into it, be a good boy and you will be rewarded.
The designers of the HUGO 2 say it's 'bound to leave a deep and lasting impression' — a claim we can absolutely confirm. That's thanks to 20% extra power housed inside this new iteration of LELO's bestselling massager.
From the outside, it looks pretty much identical to the OG, the only notable difference the luxe green colour way. But, as part of the upgrade, LELO's added two extra vibration modes, delivered via a slightly shorter (2.83 inches), lighter weight internal shaft.
You can also bid goodbye to the fiddly buttons and switches. The brand's patented ‘SenseMotion’ tech means you can amp up the pleasure, using the wireless remote, with a quick flick of your wrist.
It’s hard to imagine being in the midst of some sweaty, heady action and grunting to your partner, 'babe, get the Bondara Gyrate 10 Function Remote Rotating Prostate Massager out'. But once you’ve tried it, it’s very easy to imagine demanding 'the rotating one' as you’re shuddering your way through a bumper sesh.
Rolling and rumbling its way through 12 vibration settings, the Gyrate is perfect for trying out different pressure points, and the rippled texture of the internal probe provides fairly realistic sensations.
Granted, we were a little biased on seeing the sub £50 price tag, but all of our testers agreed this offered serious bang for minimal buck.
Backdoor pioneers, gather round. This L-shaped vibe is slightly textured with a good silicone grip that doesn’t feel too artificial, plus it's sized — slimmer and longer than others in our line-up — to fit even an inexperienced bumhole.
Fitted with three speeds and seven patterns, the motor's powerful and interesting enough to provide a satisfying solo sesh. No, it's not the the most interesting or technically savvy, but it certainly does the job.
Mantric likes to market itself as the provisioner of 'true bedroom essentials' — and with a few simple tweaks to the classic massager format, the brand have done enough to earn that title.
Let's start with the colour-changing LED panel on the base, aiding a speedy return to your favoured mode. No time-wasting here. Then there's that curved base which makes rocking back and forth a doddle.
Yet again, the wireless remote cuts the need for any sort of circus-style contortion and it works, as promised, under water. We've now talked ourselves into buying another, so see you at the checkout.
We're fully aware Lovehoney is marketing this as a dildo and has placed it in the female sex toy section. But we're modern men that like to think outside the box, and this dual-ended metal probe offers firm, filling sensations wherever you send it.
Curved to mimic your contours, this one's safe to use with all styles of lube — including thick and slick, silicone styles — and to amp up the sensations further, consider a spot of temperature play. Simply submerge it in a bowl of warm or cool water (trust us, you'll want to avoid the extremes) for a few minutes before heading down under.
A simple and exceptionally sleek example of a prostate toy, except this one's exclusively for experienced players. Mantric's P-Spot Probe is large and in charge, prompting a speedy end to your sesh even when used on the lowest setting.
Curved in just the right way, the handle is really easy to hold — but let’s be honest, this is clearly intended to be held by someone else. In fact, this comes into its own when someone’s face is at about hip height, and they’re reaching round to use it on you, while they get their job done. Subtle enough?
So, I may have baulked at being sent a toy for ladies (The cheek! The nerve! The audacity and the gumption!), and yes, the SMART WAND from LELO is designed for the fairer sex. But, to a lot of people, so is the penis and some of us have found a handy workaround for that, haven’t we?
When a female friend told me that the magic wand was so powerful she could easily get herself off through her clothes, I decided I'd give it a chance. Although for anal play, I would recommend ditching the layers.
In fact, if you’re spending the evening with a friend and the SMART WAND, take the next day off. You can thank us later.
As the energy crisis rolls on, my series of sex tech reviews have seen the kind of charging action (and cable chaos) that are sure to make my eyes water at the end of the month.
Of the toys that are battery operated — the perks include that they can last longer and don’t run out when you’re only halfway up the stairway to heaven — the Rebel came out on top.
While this prostate massager doesn’t come with a remote, it does have seven pretty good vibration settings that range from mild to wild. You will have to reach around to switch mode and work your way through them all to get back to your top-rated, but we're going to consider that a form of foreplay.
If for any reason you’re a bit squeamish about anal play, you might have bigger and more serious problems than I can deal with here. Real men love things up their ass. Period. And whether you’re a novice or a bold adventurer, there are plenty of toys on the market to help you explore the concept. But what exactly are the benefits of butt fun?
'Prostate play can offer an additional way of experiencing pleasure, whether partnered or solo, as well as new sensations,' says Moyle.
Stimulating the gland during sex, masturbation or anal play can also augment orgasm, making you cum harder and longer, or even pushing you to a dry orgasm. Yep, that’s a thing. If you don’t see why this matters, imagine a woman having sex but not involving her clitoris. By not exploring your P-spot, you’re only getting half the story.
Brand new to butt stuff? Consider the following tips before you get stuck in.
There’s an ancient saying that still holds true to this day: shit happens. But if you’re heading for the pleasure dome, it’s nice if it, well, doesn’t. However, each of us has to explore what works for us when preparing for anal play.
Some people are naturally blessed, others may have a routine for preparing. This can mean taking fibre supplements, eating more healthily, trying out silicone suppositories (available from any chemist) or simply familiarising yourself with basic douching.
If you’re yet to rinse and repeat, be gentle and start small. You’ll be surprised how good it is to feel clean, and it’ll help you relax when you’re experimenting.
Our journey begins in what Julian Clary brilliantly titled his autobiography, A Young Man’s Passage. Specifically, about five centimetres in.
When you’re feeling good and frisky, slide in a clean finger (yours or somebody else’s) or toy, slathered in plenty of lube, pointing it towards your belly button and you should strike gold.
We're big on inviting lube into all your sexual encounters, in a bid to limit friction and up your pleasure. But this is even more important when taking a trip backstage.
'The anus doesn't self-lubricate sufficiently, and so a good water-based lubricant is important for penetration to be comfortable,' says Moyle.
While LELO's Personal Moisturiser is scent-free and won't stain your sheets, Lovehoney's Anal Lube option is best for those who like a lengthy liaison.
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